When will the child be talking? When can the parents get started? What do parents do first? How can parents communicate with their child until s/he learns to talk?

Response written by Ellen A. Rhoades, Ed.S., Cert. AVT, CED

These questions are very important to parents. They want their child to express feelings and thoughts so that they talk with each other. The child, however, cannot talk unless s/he first learns how to hear, to listen, and understand language. As a result of auditory-verbal therapy, hearing will become integrated into the child’s personality. Then the child will understand the language parents speak before speaking the language him/herself. One might think of a child as a vessel; parents pour language into that vessel and, eventually, the words overflow and the child will be talking.

Therefore, equally important related questions are: "When will the child be understanding his/her parents and other people?" and "When will the child understand normal speech?" Responses to these questions are dependent upon many conditions, including: the child being able to consistently hear conversational speech with an effective hearing aid or cochlear implant, having an intact neurological system, and parents who diligently provide an excellent speech and language model. Under these conditions, the baby should gradually learn to understand language and then to talk just like children with normal hearing. This is especially true when the child is very young and the language delay is minimal when beginning auditory-verbal therapy. Child development research findings indicate that babies begin to talk about a year after hearing, so a baby who is hearing-impaired is expected to start to talk no later than approximately one year after beginning auditory-verbal therapy. Some babies talk later and some start talking much sooner.

If the child is not a baby, however, then when the child will first understand language and later start talking will depend largely on the child’s chronological age (CA) and hearing age (HA). HA dates from the time the child begins to consistently hear with either hearing aids or a cochlear implant. The greater the difference between the child’s HA and CA, the longer it may take the child to talk.

Auditory-verbal therapy, therefore, must be started as soon as possible. The sooner the child begins to use appropriate hearing aids and/or a cochlear implant, the sooner the child will learn to listen and understand speech. The sooner the child understands speech, the sooner the child will talk. Even without effective hearing aids or a cochlear implant, it is wise to start therapy immediately because there are auditory-verbal skills that can be encouraged which will help the child adapt more rapidly (or, if you prefer, "more effectively") to the hearing aids or cochlear implant.

From the initial evaluation in therapy, the auditory-verbal therapist guides parents in an active working partnership for the benefit of the child. The auditory-verbal therapist shows parents many effective ways to respond to the child and to encourage the child to listen and talk. Parents, child and therapist will enjoy themselves with the many games, songs, toys, and activities that are part of each auditory-verbal therapy session.

Regardless of the child’s age, it is important that parents do not stop talking to the child just because of the newly diagnosed hearing impairment. The playful and natural communication that parents had with their child before diagnosis should not stop. The give-and-take of vocal exchanges at a normal conversational level needs to continue. Even though the baby may not yet be hearing well, he/she will still ‘read’ the parents’ body language. Parents need to talk very close to the baby’s ear – this is talking "within earshot." If the baby is not yet using hearing aids or cochlear implant, parents need to speak naturally and directly into the baby’s ear. If the baby is using hearing aids, adults need to speak within 6 inches of the microphone. This will give the most audible and intelligible auditory signal.

Parents will encourage the baby to listen to their vocal play. They will repeat the sounds that the child makes and show much pleasure when the child vocalizes so that s/he will vocalize even more. Meaningful repetitions will teach the child about the world, as parents explain and expand on what is happening. A clear and loving voice will demonstrate the meaning of what the child is experiencing. Like most mothers, parents will use short, simple sentences when conversing with the child, use words to name the things in the child’s environment, sing when dancing with the child, and recite rhymes just for the pleasure of it. The joy in and of the parents’ words will be conveyed to the child.

Parents and their babies will engage in many fun-filled activities that promote speech and language such as reading books together and playing with animal and transportation toys and dolls. They will also engage in many physical activities that can easily be done anywhere such as throwing balls, jumping up and down, turning around and pushing and pulling things. They will have great fun together as they play silly games like using toes for piggies, or opening up their arms wide upon saying, "How big is baby? So-o-o big!" The bonus to all these activities is that the baby will learn to understand the words. Parents are encouraged and reminded to allow their children the full and total experience of childhood.

Playing games, whispering, blowing raspberries, and tongue trilling are some pre-speech activities that stimulate a baby’s eagerness to talk well. The baby needs to practice moving all the parts of his/her face with ease, so that speech will come easily.

Parents will also be developing an "auditory schema" in the baby. They will repeatedly expose the baby to many different sounds of the language and the environment and will encourage the baby to babble. Babbling is a natural step in the development of speech. Eventually, the baby will use jargon as he/she intersperses ‘real’ words with nonsense syllables. From then on, the baby will use less jargon and more ‘real’ words and eventually be talking!

A nonverbal child knows how to make his/her needs known. Parents intuitively know how use natural body language, natural gestures, pictures, and words, to make their needs, thoughts, and feelings known to the child. Parents who take great pleasure in playing with their children while talking to them are not likely to have frustrated children! Someday, when their child is talking a mile a minute, the parents will wonder why they were ever worried about what to do. Following the guiding principles of the auditory-verbal approach, therapists work as part of a comprehensive team to help parents get started as quickly as possible in helping their child listen and talk and guide them in ways to communicate effectively at each stage of the child’s development.

Excerpt from 50 FAQs About AVT
(Ed. W. Estabrooks)
©
2001
Toronto, Canada: Learning To Listen Foundation


Ellen A. Rhoades, Ed.S., Cert. AVT, CED
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